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It has been a while since I updated this blog.

Have been busy lately.. ..yesh with Kayden again, and so much so that…I am lazy to think and compose and write..brain cells kena strained liao…

After switching Kayden to another infant care school, problem arises again. This round…..he is sick..to be exact it’s broncholitis and U.T.I. again! So and again..I have to thick-skinned and write to my boss to extend my no-pay leave until end of December. Envious…? Don’t be..cos I am NOT ON A HOLIDAY ok..? …..I became MARIAH No. 1 ler…and since I am No. 1..there must be a No. 2 rite…n if u r fast enough…you would have guessed it …yesh it’s none other than our Kayden’s papa – Kelvin Tan…yeeeaaaah!

Jokes aside… I must say I am really really thankful to my bosses for being so understanding, but I am feeling paiseh..cos my work has to be assigned to the other of my colleagues (even though now they are really really short of manpower)

Okay I will spare u the details of the ordeal, which we have undergone. On a happier note…I would love to share some pix of Lil’ Kayden with you guys.

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Ever since he is on cephalosporin..(antibiotic for his UTI) he has been having loose stools..well it was alls well initially…but lately about 3 weeks back…he hass been experiencing..bad nappy rashes at his buttock area. Aye …thought of including pictures of his rashes but to save u guys from throwing out ur meals..I better not…Picture speaks a thousand words mah…then I dun have to be so cheong hey…hehehe

Anyway..our lil’ fren has been seeing doc again…for his buttock..and on and off on anti-fungal cream and antibiotic cream and coupled with clothe diapers. …My days are never boring..I am always busy…Doc said that b’cos of the anitbiotic, it is casuing him diarrhea (side-effects) and hence making his stools more acidic and as a result leading to rashes. Poor baby..

Hmm….I guess as long as he is on this antibiotc ..his rashes are here to stay…he will still be on it for as long as the consultant at KK thinks his condition warrants it as a form of prophylatic treatment…Till then…Kelvin and I will still be as busy as ever…me..will be busy changing his clothe diaper, while Kelvin will be busy washing it…at the end of the day….

Parenthood never ceased to surprise me…with full of challenges….hmmm….hope I will just be as sound as ever…

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Today marks Kayden’s third month! Yeah …my “special son” is 3 month old…

He has grown so much….and dunoe why he gives me the impression that he is much more than just a 3 month old infant…

He has learnt so much things…and everyday he is different and now he loves my companion and always want to talk to me…he loves blowing saliva bubbles..too….

It’s tiring looking after him…especially when he is my first (no experience la) and he is giving me so much challenging situations…1st was his congested/stuffy nose lah, which is giving him and myself lots of sleepless nites…..then followed by his colic and then his caregiver problem…now…his UTI problem…

My wish for him is to grow up healthily and be a happy being!

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Boy oh..boy..just when I thought the dust has settled down…just 2 wks after my rashes episode..another incident happened again..

Well..Kayden has been having fever for about 4 days..and forgetful me…didn’t thought of it as a sign of infection at all! Absent-minded indeed..I only kept asking myself how come a barely 3mth old boy is having an on-off fever..but I have forgotten all about the infection thingy.

On the 3rd day of the fever episode, his fever actually subsided …whole day no sign of it…then it decided to visit him again…on the next day! He was having a high fever of 38.9 deg c..it was raining heavily and making it a bit troublesome  for me to bring him to the doc. ( I should have insisted!) so I ended giving him only paracet …it did work…but until at night…9+ only. That is when everything took a turn for the worst…he wasn’t having any fever though ..n suddenly …he started throwing milk…and began what seems to be a choking kind of expression. ..and kept crying..and it gets louder when Kelvin tries to carry him….and when I tried to carry him…he cried very loud too..really its nerve-wrecking..lor..cos he can’t talk ..and we just have to guess what is he up to.. So I began..patting his back to get any remnants out of his lung (which was what I thought initially…he was choked by milk)…but to no avail. That was when I began to realise it was something else…but dunoe what n…I began to panick..(trying very hard to keep my cool) but I managed to call my mum for help!!!!!!

Fortunately, Kelvin and my brother are around..and then I grabbed whatever I can think of …with me…and off we go to the nearest clinic.  It was when I was in the car…I realised that he was throwing what seems to be a fit! Why I didn’t rush straight to A&E..? Well, I couldn’t ascertain..if his was a choking incident or a fit, ALL  I could think of is to give him the fastest aid..

Don’t know isit consider fortunate or unfortunate..? We reached the clinic at Sembawang MRT Station..it was closed (just like the rest near my place) so there is another one…which is still open…until 11pm, so I rushed in..OK, at this point in time u would say….heng ah…another clinic is still open…but I can’t of regretted going in…cos…the doc…says its a febrile fit!…and there is nothing much he can do..(which is quite true lah) ok..so I managed to ascertain that Kayden is having a fit…so how…now…I am stuck ..I can’t just go to A & E like that cos I dunoe what to give to him to allevate his condition…and what if somethingw worst happens alng the way…what am I to do?

So stay put lor…then doc instructed the clinic assistant to sponge  Kayden (by now his fever is back to visit him again…) and a neb to “open-up” his airways, while I am there turning and holding Kayden to rest his right side. So the waiting game starts….while he was crying frantically …we waited eagerly and with thoughts running wild inside me..what if this n what if that…and why the hell the stupid ambulance is not here yet…! It took them almost 1/2 hour to reach us…reason : short of ambulance! ???? O.M.G ! Hello….??? although its just a mere 30 mins…and it seems like forever ok…and anything could happen! …I am really angry n frustrated! Keeping my cool…and tearing…I can’t help but to keep bugging the clinic assistant to call them n rush them…fortunately…Kayden felt better after the neb….

Ok so while all these took place….where is papa….? Papa..? I really dunoe what he was doing…I could only remember asking him to make phone calls….I guess he was as clueless as..me…Could he have been in a shock too?…I dunoe…All I know…is to tell myself to keep cool and have a clear mind…I can’t loose my composure.

I am so glad when my brother (who is waiting outside the clinic all the time) called me n informed that the paramedics are here already..I felt so relieved. That was the first time I am on an ambulance..and pray that it will be the last!  While on the ambulance Kayden was being sponged again…and given oxygen supply…cos..they found his heartbeat weak and oxygen level low…so frightening…I am glad the female paramedic made me felt better by talking to me…and not letting wild thoughts get into me..very soon we reached KK hospital…n because we arrival in
“style” (in ambulance)..we were given priority treatment..no need to q, as compared to if we were to walk-in just like that…

While I was with Kayden at the A&E ward sponging him away,…papa was at the counter doing all the admim work. After waiting for about 1/2 hour, we were being ushered to the paed’s ward. that’s when the waiting starts again…we waited for about an hour+ ..for the M.O… Aiyoh..I got lots to say about this M.O. and I bet she is still doing her housemen thingy….cos she is so…green..kept repeating her questions…and can’t write properly on the case sheet….u just can tell when they are not pro enough…I am so glad she was there only to take an account oof the incident, nothing else.  I felt like a suspect leh….assisting in criminal investigation.

It was until an hour later a more experienced M.O. came along and spoke to us about Kayden’s condition and told us what is expected to be done..So at around 3:00 am Kayden was taken away by the staff nurse……for a series of tests…and his blood, urine and spinal fluid were extracted for analysis to see which is the culprit for causing the infection thus his fever…It was only until 4:30 am then Kayden returns. He was sound asleep, with tube inserted into his lil hand.

So sorry for him..look at the tube inserted to his lil hand..my heart aches..

That night they constantly monitor his temperature n BP..and started him with high doses of ampicillin and gentamicin ..cos they fear that there maybe a brain infection..it was a nerve-wrecking moment for me…cos..I am so worried about the results of those tests.
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The following day he was still feeling lousy..could see that he was very sleepy..and listless…and temperature is still on the high side…soon..the preliminary test result is out…n glad to hear that brain infection – meningitis was ruled out! The possible culprit turns out to be UTI – urinary tract infection..possible bacteria culprit is E.Coli..

And so they adjusted the antibiotics accordingly…Doc says he needs to be warded for another 2 days for observation and the final results of his urine culture…fair enough.

Glad to see that his fever subsided and under control at the end of 2nd day…he looks and feels better …as u can see in the following photos..

Lying comfortably on the bed..watching TV

Lying comfortably on the bed..watching TVExercising his porky legs..

 On Thursday doc gave the final verdict and “green light” that Kayden may be discharge..we are so glad to hear that he can go home..liao..but he is not off the hook completely as yet…cos he needs to return to the hospital at later dates to do an ultrasound of his unrinary tract and kidneys and then review by the doc to investigate the underlying cause of his infection. Doc says the infection could scarred his kidneys or there maybe a reflux in his uriniary tract…it’s very scary to hear all these….really..Besides the return for review…Kayden is also given 7 weeks of oral antibiotic..poor boy..so young and has already taken so much medicine…It’s been a week since his discharge …I am still monitoring his temperature as a precaution measure….

Just hope that he wil be fine… and that was just a one-off situation kind of thing…otherwise…I can’t really go back to work with a sound mind…

 

Hmmm….initially I thought to myself wow..I will be having 4 mths of maternity leave..how nice…and how am I going to spend it..hahaha…it was an ideal thought.

It was too good to be true..and everything happens for a reason (why they gave us 4mths)…

Well after Kayden’s visit to paed., things didn’t seem to turn for the better…firstly I have problem in deciding whether to send him to infant care or nanny…(time waits for no man)., secondly I have rashes all over my body..(including source of milk supply)..shucks..and so thirdly..he has lost touch to bottle feeding…arrhhhgghhh….stress stress stress….ah……that was about 3 wks ago…I am glad…two of these problem have been solved…

All I can say is I was too naive to think that my 4 mths of maternity leave would be a smooth sailing one….I was so wronged! It is packed with so much unexpected events….so stressful, so frustrating…everything is so so so……I dunoe…what else…to expect…

Thinking of going back to work to escape reality..? Nah….not really…that didn’t really cross my mind…I only wished I could look after Kayden full time. On the contrary I DREAD TO GO BACK…and wished I could quit working..I am so sick of my job..!

After our visit to gynae, we didn’t really spend much time shopping around Orchard. It’s a pity cos I had very much wanted to shop for my CNY’s clothing and shoes.

Partly being the fact that we have alot of errands to run and also I do not wish to waste my energy unnecessary, given the current status that I am in now….must use wisely u know..(everywhere is so crowded….and I don’t think anyone would give a shit and thinks hey a preganant woman is around do watch out for her…and don’t knocked into her…so I better take care of myself and avoid crowded places, esp. around this period. Another thing that I realised is that most people still dun feel the recession crunch yet…they are shopping like nobody’s business…wor…hmm..)

Anyway back to our errands, after Orchard our next stop is Chinatown – People’s Park. What r we doing there, u may ask? Well, (1) to collect our photos from Studio Loft, and (2) to buy my toiletories. Again, I saw alot of clothings at the People’s Park Complex..if u have been there…u would realised that they have a lot of shops down there selling alot of trendy clothing and working outfits as well at reasonable price…argghh……how to buy…what size to buy…? I can’t buy…argghhhhh..so after we chop chop with our errands, pit-stop for some snacks n drinks and we are off to the next stop.

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Yesh….we are there …with the intention to buy a pram and Lil’ One’s rocker.
Thinking that it will be cheaper…but not really lah…actually..we have been there before..but we realised that the pram which we wanted to buy is cheaper at Carrefour, which we happened to chance upon the other day. As for the rocker, we have been doing our survey and must say not much of a diff., so since we are already there…we got one of it. It’s a Fisher-Price baby/toddler bouncer & rocker, and it allows Lil’ One to have it until he is 3 yrs.

After Baby Kingdom, we were off to S’pore Expo for the JL sale. Thought I saw Capella’s  on sale there…so decided to pop by and check out for any bb products. Sad to say, the last Capella stroller had just taken by one couple..argghh….so not meant to be. Never mind, we managed to buy a blanket and two Carter’s body suits for Lil’ One. As for myself, hehehe…i managed to buy a pair of Charles & Keith shoes ~ FINALLY!
At this stage, Kelvin was already very tired…so are my feet and so we decided to call it a day. Last stop, dinner at Popoeyes Changi Airport T1. We have been craving for it..since don’t know…when our last visit….BUT though..I was a bit apprehensive about eating there…fearing that their quality may be compromised afterall they have opened another two new outlets.

Aiyoh…boy I was so right….the first sight of the much awaited fried chicken was so oily. We are so disappointed..we have switched from KFC to Popoeyes mainly bcos of this..and now…*sigh*….another disappointment is they have cut down their sides, they used to serve two sides coleslaw and mashed potatoe, but now…only sreve one side..cutting cost bah….but one thing still for sure…they serve tastier coleslaw than KFC.

Oh boy…by the time we reached home…we were so tired….but my dear friend still managed to play his fav. PC game wor….suddenly he became recharged leh! Typical men….tsk tsk tsk….